13 January 2015

story of surviving 2nd half of 2014

well... dah almost half month of d new year dah...dh abih dah 2014.... mayb ade org akan kata cepat nyer masa berlalu... tp aku tak rasa mcm tu... mayb sbb byk sgt bende berlaku. last year.. esp 2nd half of d year.. just like mcm2 dugaan melanda malaysia tahun ni... all d flights tragedy... d floods.. d kemarau&jerebu... mcm2 dugaan...

for me... mcm2 bende terjadi.. good & bad... mcm2 cabaran...
1. zara start skolah
2. cabaran pregnant (sakit pinggang)
3. having azzalea
4. bibik lari
5. hubby kejer jauh
6. handling d kids by myself (most of d times)
7. abah's heart attack & bypass
8. fun trip to langkawi

.... hmmm... n many more small2 things..i can't remember in details..

last month genap la 6 bln kitorg 'kene tinggal'... last 6mnths hubby went off to kerteh...leaving us anak beranak..me, zara, qiqi & lea alone (eh?saper yg alone nih?).. i remember it was d nite b4 1st ramadhan.. d kids cried... me too.. but life goes on... imagine bangun sahur & berbuka without him... nasib baik zara bersemangat nk bgn sahur... tak pernah miss sahur... even dia xpuasa but she never miss teman mama dia makan.. tq sayang... :)  mknn berbuka plk aku beli kt cafe ofis.. kebetulan diorg bukak order utk lauk berbuka.... aku just masak nasik... n singgah beli kuih... ade jgk hari mula2 tu xorder lauk....n xsempat nk singgah bl kuih... aku masak spegeti je... mkn w kicap... byk bdk2 ni makan...

ramai yg tanye how do i survived handling 3 kids on my own.... hmmm... mula2 sbelom kene 'tinggal' tu pun aku fikir mcm tu...mesti susah nk handle... but Alhamdulillah... Allah tlg kami anak beranak.. xde la susah mane pun... aku just buat yg mane termampu... lg pun hubby away max 5days jer.. once dia balik mmg ringan la skit kejer... n so far he never miss balik on every weekend.. except ade 1 wiken tu dia ade team building kt tok bali.. but he came back on monday sbb ade training..

for me, i just make sure things worked as plan... as much as i can.. sbb ade baby mmg payah skit nk ikut jadual... this is my routine (during normal weekdays isnin - khamis):
5.30pg: bangun.. buat bekfes&bekal for zara... 2 bekal...sek.kebangsaan & kafa.... ade jadual.. frozen food or bread... stok nugget, sosej, ciken fingers..sentiasa ade kt umah...n every sunday make sure bl bread, roti coklat & twiggies...  then aku masukkan brg2 dlm beg... n siap botol&pump...
6pg: naik mandi & solat subuh...
6.20pg : gerak zara&qiqi...mandikan diorg... pakai baju...
6.40pg: aku bg lea susu & pam jgk... n sambil sikat rambut zara&qiqi... super multi-tasking...then diorg turun bekfes...
6.55pg: aku siap2 pakai bj & berbedak...n turun masukkan brg dlm keter... time ni mmg kelam kabut giler... dgn bising suh bdk2 mkn cepat...pakai kasut cepat... dgn nk layan lea g kdg2 mintak dukung...
7.05pg: kuar umah
sbelom7.15pg: sampai skolah zaara...mmg bersesak kt pagar tu... lps drop zara aku g antar qiqi... kalo ikutkan blh je nk drop lea plk sbb dpn pagar skolah zara je taska nyer.... tp sbb sesak sgt..n aku pun xrushing...so, aku sanggup la pusing2...antar qiqi dl... lg pun by d time dh antar qiqi tu dlm 7.25 org dh xsesak dh kt area taska tu... senang skit nk antar lea...
lps dh drop diorg..automatic aku akan rase lega giler.... its ME TIME... kesian...org me time pegi spa ke massage ke... aku me time dlm keter je la... layan diri sambil drive g work... kdg2 singgah gerai beli bekfes...
8.15pg(or later...depends trafik); aku sampai opis...aku xtrus masuk opis..aku singgah surau dl.. lepak2...buat dhuha...
8.45pg: baru masuk opis... ngaji/bc tafsir 1 page... tunggu geng dtg utk bekfes...
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kejerrrrrrrr (lunch mostly tapau kt kafe je...n tapau food utk dinner skali)
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 6.00ptg: kuar opis... normal trafik(jam) sejam br sampai dpn taska lea
7.00ptg: amik lea... then amik zara&qiqi kt smart soleh...
7.15ptg: sampai umah... start la kelam kabut lagi... kluar brg dr beg skolah diorg... suap diorg dinner... yup dinner awal sbb bdk2 ni mmg balik skolah tu lapar..
7.45pm: naik atas..mandi...solat...
8.15pm: turun..  bg lea susu & pam...then aku plk makan sambil dukung lea kalo dia xtido.. zara buat homework n siap beg skolah... then bergantung kpd keadaan lea...kalo mood baik/tido... kakak blh tlg tgkkan dia...so aku blh la basuh botol..iron bj skolah... n kemas beg skolah dgn aman... kalo tak, aku kene buat keje2 tu sbelah tgn.. basuh botol tu plg susah kalo nk kene dukung... kdg2 aku biar je dia nangis jap... dh settle br dukung dia... tiap2 selasa, aku basuh bj lea... n sidai... kdg2 tunggu bdk2 tdo br aku sidai..
9.30pm: naik atas,..bdk2 tdo... aku dodoi lea bg dia tdo.. kdg2 lajak sampai dkt pkl 11pm jgk br dia lena... lps dia lena br la aku blh nk solat isyak n bersiap nk tido.....

... gitu la rutin kebiasaan nyer... tp kalo khamis mlm, fido balik... so, aku blh delay2 skit kejer... n dia blh tlg pegang lea... dia pun balik2 tak la rest sgt pun.. trus basuh bj bdk2 n sidai..

kalo friday jadual santai skit sbb fido blh tlg antar bdk2 skolah..so, aku xrushing sgt... most of d time lps antar bdk2, kitorg sempat g DATING dl... kt mamak..then br g opis... :p hhehehe...tu yg best nyer... :D

friday nite slalu nyer kitorg g dinner kt luar... then layan maharaja lawak... :p

sabtu, slalu nyer kalo xde ape2 activity, kitorg g umah mamatok..

sunday subuh2 fido dh balik kerteh balik... sku bz gk sunday... pg2 buat bekfes... tgh hari kene masak plk..kalo tak, nk mkn ape kan??nk kuar, xleh... unless uchu rajin dtg nk bwk kitorg kuar.. nk kene settle bj2 skolah diorg lg... mula2 tu ade gk aku amik bibik part time tu.. yg dok umah kongsi blakang taman ni... rm10/jam... dia dtg cuci umah n iron bj...lega la skit... dpt la dlm 2 bln kot...then dia pindah... tp lps tu dh nk cuti skolah...rilex la skit....xyah nk fikir psl bj skolah...

gitu la lebih kurang aku punyer rutin...selama 6 bln lps... mmg mula2 tu memenatkan.. tp aku rasa puas ati... penat tp rasa sihat.. mayb sbb biler buat kejer tu berpeluh2... badan rase ringan skit... org pun ramai kata aku nmpk KURUS!!!... ahaksssss... hahahahha... :p

satu pengalaman yg sgt mencabar fizikal n emosi... but at d end aku enjoy... dpt uruskan anak2 sendiri.. mmg byk kelemahan nyer... anak2 slalu kene marah... tiap2 mlm mkn mknn luar.. dah terpakse... insyaAllah aku try perbaiki.. mcm mase cuti skolah tu i manage to send zara&qiqi gi ngaji class mlm2... pkl 8.30-9pm... penat skit sbb kene kuar byk kali... tp puas ati... n even of d KALUT_NESS... zara manage to improve her keputusan exam... from no.25 in class to no.8!!... alhamdulillah... n this year dpt maintain 1st class... coz overall dia dpt no.25 dlm darjah... i am proud... alhamdulillah... n 1 thing aku notice... anak2 aku lebih independant... not much tp at least dh pandai nk urus diri sendiri (dgn bantuan jeritan dr mama nyer :p)... at least diorg tau balik skolah tu kene kuarkan brg sendiri dr dlm beg... n bekfes tanpa kene tunggu mama... good enuf for me... hope to see more nnt...insyaAllah..


eh..ok lah... b4 lupa... nk wish.. HAPPY NEW YEAR to uollss... semoga tahun ni lebih baik utk kita semua... korang tlg la doa2kan kot2 fido dpt pindah balik KL cepat2 skit yer... kesian bdk2 ni... tak cukup perhatian... hehehhe... :p

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